Can You Forgive Your Abuser? As a childhood sexual abuse victim, can you forgive your abuser? This is a question I’ve really wrestled with. I know, from a religious standpoint, that I should. However, the crimes committed against me were so egregious that I have still not been able to forgive my abusers fully. Hi, this …
Get Revenge on Your Sexual Abusers? As a childhood sexual abuse victim, did you ever want to get revenge on your sexual abusers? Maybe this was something that you didn’t act on, but did you at least think or fantasize about it? Hi, this is Kurt B. Ellis, an author who self-publishes with Amazon’s Kindle …
Were You Selected for Sexual Abuse? As a male childhood sexual abuse victim, did you ever wonder why this happened to me? That is, why were you selected for sexual abuse? Was there a target on your head as a child that made you more susceptible to sexual abuse? I have often pondered this question …
Are We Reliving the Repressive 1960’s? Looking at our recent political and societal unrest in parts of the US, I am asking if we are reliving the repressive 1960s. Having grown up in that era in North Carolina, I witnessed many things then that I fear are being repeated now – and this disturbs me. …
How to Stop the Cycle of Sexual Abuse? As a childhood sexual abuse survivor, did you ever ask how to stop the cycle of sexual abuse? As an adult, did you ever feel that you had a moral obligation to prevent it from happening again? Hi, this is Kurt B. Ellis, an author who self-publishes …
Were You Forbidden To Talk? As a childhood sexual abuse victim, were you forbidden to talk? That is, talk about it while it was happening, and later were you forbidden to talk about it as an adult? I was forbidden to talk about my abuse by two critical sets of people in my life. As …
Consistent Reviews For My Trauma Novel! I am pleased to announce that I have very positive and consistent reviews for my trauma novel, which is now being sold on Amazon. My novel’s title is “Boy in the Barn: Journey of Triumph Over Horrific Child Abuse, Sexual Abuse, and PTSD.” Hi, this is Kurt B. Ellis, …
My Trauma Book Is Now Live! I am pleased to announce that my trauma book is now on Amazon. My novel is “Boy in the Barn: Journey of Triumph Over Horrific Child Abuse, Sexual Abuse, and PTSD.” Hi, this is Kurt B. Ellis, an author who self-publishes with Amazon’s Kindle Direct Publishing. I have written …
How Did You Survive Trauma? As a childhood sexual abuse survivor, have you ever asked yourself, “How on earth did I survive my trauma?” Looking back at my horrible childhood and all the crap I went through, I am still amazed that I turned out as well as I did. Hi, this is Kurt B. …
Blaming the Victim? As a sexually abused child, were you blamed and made to feel responsible for your abuse? Did your abuser try to get into your head and try to convince you that you invited your abuse and were a willing participant? Hi. This is Kurt B. Ellis, an author who self-publishes with Amazon’s …